Have you ever wanted to kiss a girl and have her think that you are an incredible kisser? Well, you’re in luck, you are about to find out the secrets that will start to turn you into a kissing connoisseur.
Most men have not taken the time to study the fine art of kissing a woman.
To establish the foundation on how to kiss your girl and really blow her mind with the experience, first use touch to progressively gauge whether your woman is ready to kiss you.
If you can move smoothly and tenderly in stroking her hair, neck, and ears, then she is more than likely ready to kiss you.
Enjoy the sensations that you are masterfully bringing her so that you can take hours to just enjoy each other so that when the kiss happens, the build up and sizzling electricity will be that much more amazing.
After you have created the foundation of physical comfort through touch, create the special moment of the kiss by touching her cheeks gently and guiding her face toward you.
Lead her powerfully yet gently. If she is ready to kiss you, as you slowly move toward her, she will close her eyes, smile, or move her face towards you. Go in 90% and allow her to meet you that remaining 10%.
Your lips have met, and you are now kissing her! Almost every woman has a fantasy and ideal of how she wants to be kissed. So here comes the secret on how to kiss your girl and find out what that ideal kiss is to her without actually asking her.
One of the easiest ways to find out is to simply pay attention.
People usually project outward that which we most want, especially in the physical realm, so we will give love the way we want to receive love and she will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed.
The key is then to model her kiss. This means to kiss her exactly how she is kissing you because her lips will be telling you her ideal kiss.
Why is modeling her kiss so potent? Have you ever met a woman who considers herself a bad kisser? I think not. So if you kiss her the way she kisses you are guaranteed to be good in her eyes.
Secondly, people who are like each other “like” each other, and when you kiss her just the way that she kisses you it is as if you have been lovers for ages
By kissing her in a way that is surprisingly familiar to her, she will feel safe, and on a subconscious level become bonded to you, and with that you can become her ideal lover through your kiss.
She has a fantasy in her head of how her ideal lover will kiss her, and usually she has probably rehearsed this over and over in her head. By simply modeling how she kisses you, you are more than likely coming close to that ideal in her head.
Listen to her lips with your whole body and all of your senses as you kiss her. When your lips touch, really pay attention to the pressure that she’s putting on your lips.
Pay close attention to the pressure, speed, and way she is kissing you with her lips and do the same to her. Notice how she is positioning her lips in terms of whether her lips are barely touching yours, or if she is pushing her lips into yours. Notice the configuration of her lips. There are four major configurations:
There’s the single top lip, where both of your lips are on one of her top lip.
There’s the single bottom lip, where both of your lips are on her bottom lip.
There’s the double lip, where the two of your lips are together and touching.
There’s the open mouth kiss, where both lips are further apart and perhaps your heads are slightly tilted.
The last one often leads into the French kiss, where 918kiss your tongues are dancing with each other.
As a rule, hold off on the tongue initially. Most women like to take kissing slowly, and unless she is thrusting her tongue into your mouth, do not take the initiative until you have at least been modeling her kiss for a minute.
Continue to model her kiss for as long as possible. Pretend it’s a mirroring exercise and you are mirroring exactly what she’s doing.
Mirror also the time that she takes in touching the lips together and separating with your lips, so that you become essentially like two people with one lip, exploring each other.
Throughout the modeling process, you can be lightly stroking her hair, holding her head tenderly, or gently caressing her face to add the incredibly delicious moment.
Once you have modeled her kiss for some time, you can then venture to lead her with you kiss to deepen the passion and exploration.
If you really enjoy introducing your tongue into the kiss, then start slowly. You seldom want to just thrust your tongue into her mouth.
Allow her to lead slightly, especially with something as intrusive as the tongue, and just put it at the entrance of her mouth near her lips.
Let her take the lead first in beginning to dance with you. You want to listen and feel and merge into this dance between the two of you.
Keep your tongue soft and after a bit of exploration, you can trace her upper or lower lip gently with your tongue. This is a great way to test to see whether she wants to join you in the tongue dance.
If her tongue comes out to meets yours, then begin to dance with the tip of her tongue before engaging with her deeper.